BDSM Resources | Ms. Elle X

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10 Gratitude-Based BDSM Rituals | Ms. Elle X Do you have a difficult time experiencing or maintaining feelings of happiness? Do you feel chronically discontent or dissatisfied with your life? Do you and your partner struggle to see eye-to-eye, or does your relationship feel stale and you don’t know why? If you can relate to any of these feelings, press play to discover ten ways you can radically shift the energy and connection in your dynamic for the better! XOXO, Ms. Elle *SUB GRATITUDE JOURNAL + DOM LOVE LETTER* https://www.patreon.com/posts/submissive-75033664 ------------------------------------------------------ (01:05) - Mental Benefits of Gratitude (01:34) - Physical Benefits of Gratitude (02:26) - Sexual Benefits of Gratitude (02:55) - Relationship Benefits of Gratitude (03:29) - Financial Benefits of Gratitude (04:00) - Gratitude Ritual 01 (04:17) - Submissive Gratitude Journal (04:52) - Gratitude Ritual 02 (05:02) - Gratitude Ritual 03 (06:06) - Gratitude Ritual 04 (06:27) - Gratitude Ritual 05 (06:55) - Gratitude Ritual 06 (07:18) - Gratitude Ritual 07 (07:38) - Gratitude Ritual 08 (07:59) - Gratitude Ritual 09 (08:22) - Gratitude Ritual 10 ------------------------------------------------------ COMMUNITY TESTIMONIALS: https://www.patreon.com/posts/61204643 SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica ALL MY LINKS: https://linktr.ee/ellexerotica ------------------------------------------------------ #msellex #domsubrelationship #relationships

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How to Build an *Amazing* BDSM Contract: Pt. 1 | Ms. Elle X Although a formal BDSM contract is not mandatory for a functional dynamic or enjoyable and safe play, such agreements offer an easy reference that allows both Dominant and submissive to efficiently organize limits and experiences, navigate submissive training, and reinforce the power-exchange dynamic. So, if you're interested in creating a contract of your own, check out this video! XOXO, Ms. Elle ------------------------------------------------------ (00:53) - BDSM Contract Template (01:24) - What and Why? (04:19) - Section 01 (04:48) - Section 02 (06:04) - Section 03 (07:14) - Section 04 (08:34) - Section 05 ------------------------------------------------------ COMMUNITY TESTIMONIALS: https://www.patreon.com/posts/61204643 SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica ALL MY LINKS: https://linktr.ee/ellexerotica ------------------------------------------------------ #msellex #domsubrelationship #relationships

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The Good Guy's Guide to Dominance (BDSM) | Ms. Elle X Gentlemen, have you ever been shamed for your Dominant desires? Have you been accused of being a misogynist for wanting a loving D/s dynamic? Have you ever felt like you’re too soft and sweet to be a true Dominant, or been taught that the term "Alpha Male" is synonymous with abusive and anti-feminist? If so, check out this video because I’m sharing six secrets to ignite your masculinity and Dominant energy in a way that both honors and seduces women! XOXO, Ms. Elle ------------------------------------------------------ (00:00) - Intro (01:35) - Secret 01 (02:48) - Secret 02 (03:46) - Secret 03 (04:44) - Secret 04 (04:52) - BDSM vs. Abuse Cycles (06:45) - Secret 05 (08:31) - 4 Types of Arousal in BDSM (09:25) - Secret 06 ------------------------------------------------------ COMMUNITY TESTIMONIALS: https://www.patreon.com/posts/61204643 SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica ALL MY LINKS: https://linktr.ee/ellexerotica ------------------------------------------------------ #msellex #alphamale #men

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The Good Girl's Guide to Dominance (BDSM) | Ms. Elle X Ladies, have you ever been shamed or silenced for your Dominant desires? Have you been accused of being bossy, sinful, or out of the natural order for having a powerful voice? Have you ever felt like you’re wrong or defective for knowing what you want and calling the shots? If so, check out this video because I’m sharing six secrets to ignite your Divine feminine energy so you can finally see what a Goddess you truly are! XOXO, Ms. Elle ------------------------------------------------------ (00:59) - Secret 1 (03:27) - Secret 2 (04:20) - Secret 3 (06:07) - Secret 4 (07:10) - Secret 5 (08:06) - Secret 6 ------------------------------------------------------ COMMUNITY TESTIMONIALS: https://www.patreon.com/posts/61204643 SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica ALL MY LINKS: https://linktr.ee/ellexerotica ------------------------------------------------------ #msellex #feminism #femdom

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7 Awesome Chastity Games for Locktober | Ms. Elle X The term Locktober refers to a viral challenge throughout October, designed to take participants through thirty-one days of chastity. So, if you’re a lucky little sub playing with a partner this month, check out this video for seven sexy and creative games you can play this Locktober! XOXO, Ms. Elle - 7 Keys to an Awesome Locktober: https://youtu.be/graiE5FXX-s ------------------------------------------------------ (02:38) - Chastity Challenge (03:12) - Locktober Game 1 (03:30) - Locktober Game 2 (04:17) - Locktober Game 3 (04:35) - Locktober Game 4 (05:38) - Locktober Game 5 (05:50) - Locktober Game 6 (06:25) - Locktober Game 7 ------------------------------------------------------ COMMUNITY TESTIMONIALS: https://www.patreon.com/posts/61204643 SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica ALL MY LINKS: https://linktr.ee/ellexerotica ------------------------------------------------------ #msellex #locktober #femdom

Red Flags of Fake Dominants | Ms. Elle X

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Red Flags of Fake Dominants Not every self-proclaimed Dominant in a tailored suit or leather boots is authentic. In fact, there are some big red flags of toxic traits sneakily disguised as Dominance, so watch today's video as I break down My top ten "tells" of pseudo-Doms, and how you can keep yourself safe! --------------------------------------------------------- COMMUNITY TESTIMONIALS: https://www.patreon.com/posts/61204643 SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica MY WEBSITE: https://www.msellex.com/ ALL MY LINKS: https://linktr.ee/ellexerotica --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #warning #redflags #narcissist

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Hand Signals for Submissive Training | Ms. Elle X Teaching your submissive hand signals is not only a great way to communicate clearly at public events, play parties, and more, but these gestures can foster very clear communication between you and your submissive, especially as a code-language in vanilla situations! Want to learn My top twelve hand signals? Watch today's video! XOXO, Ms. Elle ---------------------------------------------------------- COMMUNITY TESTIMONIALS: https://www.patreon.com/posts/61204643 SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica MY WEBSITE: https://www.msellex.com/ ALL MY LINKS: https://linktr.ee/ellexerotica ------------------------------------------------------ #handsignals #bodylanguage #submissivetraining

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The *Ultimate* Guide to Non-Physical BDSM Punishments | Ms. Elle X As a soft-Domme with a penchant for psychological sadism, the concept of non-physical, that is, non-impact or overtly physically painful, punishments, is highly intriguing to Me, because this facet of punishment opens up an immense amount of creativity and effectiveness for all sub-types, even the brattiest masochist. So if you want over THIRTY punishment ideas that don’t involve a paddle or whip, tune in today as I give you the ultimate guide to non-physical punishments in BDSM! XOXO, Ms. Elle ---------------------------------------------------------- COMMUNITY TESTIMONIALS: https://www.patreon.com/posts/61204643 SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica MY WEBSITE: https://www.msellex.com/ ALL MY LINKS: https://linktr.ee/ellexerotica ------------------------------------------------------ #discipline #SAM #masochist

Red Flags of FAKE Submissives | Ms. Elle X

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Red Flags of FAKE Submissives With the prevalence of eroticized abuse surrounding the label of “Dominant,” I spend a lot of time on this channel distinguishing the line between healthy leadership and abuse. But Dom-types aren’t the only ones who can be toxic time-wasters! I have personally encountered many self-proclaimed “submissives” who were actually just scared, codependent, and desperate. So if you want to know how to spot a fake submissive GUARANTEED, stay tuned as I share the THIRTEEN biggest signs of a wannabe sub! XOXO, Ms. Elle ----------------------------------------------------------- COMMUNITY TESTIMONIALS: https://www.patreon.com/posts/61204643 SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica MY WEBSITE: https://www.msellex.com/ ALL MY LINKS: https://linktr.ee/ellexerotica ------------------------------------------------------ #submissive #codependency #mentalhealth

"I am a sub male who has been on the fringes of this Lifestyle for decades, and Ms. Elle's insights and explanations are fantastic.

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"After our first session, I was blown away at how fast Ms. Elle was able to key in on the issues and then give very strategic and practical advice. I was able to put it to use that very night which ended up being super amazing for me and my partner in crime. For those on the fence, you will not regret signing up!"

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I can't believe that She exists! She is the greatest gift to humanity I've ever been educated by! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!"

“Working with Ms. Elle has been the best thing for me. After my first session, I was inspired to go to my Dominant and request a different dynamic, and has honestly been the best thing for us. I feel so much more cared for and respected. But needed at the same time. And my partner feels more fulfilled and respected as well! Thank you Ms. Elle!”

"Ms. Elle is very beautiful but I'm excited by Her intellect. She speaks so clearly and precisely with great mastery of the English language and the subjects She covers. I have been to many conferences and been on panels with many Fortune 500 top executives and many do not measure up to Ms. Elle's skill for public speaking."