Meet
Ms. Elle X is a trauma-informed BDSM educator, licensed life coach, and former Dominatrix who has transformed countless lives through her revolutionary approach to conscious kink, healthy attachment, and empowered relationships. As the creator of the #ellexarmy, a thriving global community on Discord and Patreon, she fosters safe, inclusive spaces for Doms, subs, and switches to learn, connect, and grow.
With her signature blend of wisdom, charisma, and unapologetic authenticity, Ms. Elle delivers transformative content across her vast social media platforms, including her YouTube channel, Conscious Kink Podcast, in addition to monthly live events and masterclasses on Patreon and Discord, empowering individuals to embrace their desires with confidence and emotional intelligence.
Social Media
Reach & Impact
Ms. Elle X commands a dedicated and engaged audience across multiple platforms, making her a powerful partner for brands and collaborations:
YouTube (@ElleX)
100K subscribers as of May 2025, with 9,429,157 total views across over 600 free BDSM education videos, delivering actionable insights to a global audience passionate about kink and relationships.
- Conscious Kink Podcast: Over 75K downloads as of May 2025, sparking meaningful conversations around kink, consent, and empowerment.
Instagram, X, and TikTok (@thewisedomme)
53K followers, with engaging posts and stories that inspire and educate on conscious kink and personal growth.
Patreon & Discord (patreon.com/ellexerotica)
Over 2,600 Patrons and a vetted, tight-knit community, offering real-time engagement and exclusive access to Ms. Elle’s expertise.
Website (msellex.com)
A hub for premium kink-friendly resources, erotica, and masterclasses, attracting a highly targeted audience of BDSM enthusiasts and relationship-focused individuals, with over 4,000 subscribers on the mailing list, actively engaged with exclusive updates, offers, and content. Her content consistently drives high engagement, with community testimonials praising her ability to create safe, transformative spaces that resonate deeply with her audience.
Areas of
Expertise
Ms. Elle X is a sought-after voice in the following areas, offering unparalleled insights and practical tools:
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Trauma-Informed BDSM Education
Creating safe, consensual BDSM experiences by integrating trauma-awareness, prioritizing emotional safety, informed consent, and aftercare to support individuals exploring power dynamics with trust and care.
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Attachment Theory-Based D/s Education
Teaching strategies to foster trust, consent, and intimacy in Dom/sub relationships grounded in healthy attachment principles.
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Female Domination and Switch Dynamics
Empowering women to embrace dominant roles and navigate fluid power dynamics with confidence and skill.
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Emotionally Intelligent Dominant Training
Providing techniques for leadership and control that prioritize empathy, communication, and mutual growth.
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Erotically Intelligent Communication Training
Equipping individuals with tools to express desires and boundaries with clarity, seduction, and emotional depth.
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Seduction Strategies
Offering practical approaches to captivate and connect, enhancing intimacy and attraction in kink and relationships.
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Inducement and Non-Verbal Communication Techniques
Mastering subtle cues and body language to deepen connection and influence in D/s dynamics.
Collaboration
Opportunities
Partner with Ms. Elle X to amplify your message and connect with a passionate, engaged audience. Opportunities include:
- Brands seeking an influential partner to authentically promote products or services aligned with kink, empowerment, and relationships.
- Podcast hosts looking for a dynamic guest to share expertise on conscious kink, BDSM education, or emotional intelligence in relationships.
- Creators interested in collaborations to co-create content, workshops, or events that inspire and educate the kink community.
A Unique Voice
Ms. Elle X’s presence is a magnetic blend of commanding authority, nurturing warmth, and seductive charm. Her tone is direct yet compassionate, striking a balance between bold confidence and heartfelt empathy.
Whether she’s delivering a YouTube tutorial, engaging with her #ellexarmy on Discord, or crafting steamy erotica, Ms. Elle captivates with her authenticity and relatability. She speaks to her audience as equals, empowering them to embrace their desires without shame while guiding them with the wisdom of a seasoned educator.
