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What Type of Dom Are You? (Quiz)

  • Writer: Ms. Elle X
    Ms. Elle X
  • 21 hours ago
  • 2 min read

Are you a strict ruler, sensual seducer, or nurturing guide? Take this fun quiz and discover a deeper side of your dominance!


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What Type of Dom Are You? (Quiz)


  1. What's your go-to approach as a Dominant?

    1. Enforcing strict rules and control.

    2. Using allure to captivate the submissive.

    3. Providing nurturing guidance and support.

  2. What excites you most in a scene?

    1. Seeing the submissive obey your commands.

    2. Teasing and controlling the sub's pleasure.

    3. Creating a safe and loving space for the sub.

  3. How do you prefer to communicate with your sub?

    1. With commanding, explicit instructions.

    2. Through flirtatious, seductive whispers.

    3. Using a nurturing, supportive tone.

  4. What type of power dynamic appeals to you the most?

    1. A sturctured Master/slave relationship.

    2. A sensual, pleasure-focused connection.

    3. A caring, parental-style bond.

  5. What is your focus during play?

    1. Establishing authority and obedience.

    2. Enhancing your sub's sensual experience.

    3. Ensuring the sub's emotional well-being.

  6. How do you handle aftercare?

    1. Check-ins about obedience and performance.

    2. Teasing the sub about the next session.

    3. Offering cuddles and emotional reassurance.

  7. What is your ideal submissive role?

    1. A slave or pet who surrenders fully.

    2. A partner who craves your sensual control.

    3. A little who needs your care and guidance.

  8. What energy do you bring to a scene?

    1. A commanding, regal authority.

    2. A playful, seductive charm.

    3. A gentle, playful warmth.


RESULTS:

Mostly A’s

  • You’re a Strict Ruler! You thrive on control, obedience, and structure, embodying the Master or Authoritarian vibe.


Mostly B’s

  • You’re a Sensual Seducer! You dominate through allure and pleasure, mastering the art of sensual control.


Mostly C’s

  • You’re a Nurturing Guide! You lead with care and emotional support, shining as a Caregiver or Soft Dom.


Mixed results? 


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