Available Services

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Lifestyle Education

Ms. Elle X brings a unique and powerful presence to Her BDSM education with both striking wisdom and disarming humor. Her experience as a former ProDomme and current Lifestyle Dominant, coupled with Her training as a Relationship Coach provides Ms. Elle with a highly developed intuition and empathetic perspective to sensitive subjects like BDSM and power-exchange dynamics.


Due to the prevalence of eroticized abuse labeled as BDSM in film, print, social media, and pornography, the beauty of The Lifestyle is often reduced to the most popular PornHub search and misrepresented as hateful and harmful acts against reluctant parties. That is why Ms. Elle always approaches Her YouTube videos, Patreon content, and BDSM Masterclasses from a compassionate and ethical perspective, with authentic consent, connection, and intimacy always as the goal.

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BDSM Erotica

Comparison is an intimacy and confidence killer. Yet comparison is the overwhelming element in standard adult entertainment, in which consumers are forced to face subconscious comparison in order to enjoy the content. That is why Ms. Elle decided to do something different.


In Her first three collections of published erotica, Red Room DiariesMs. Elle X has created a revolutionary brand of story-telling that gives readers an intense emotional and sexual experience, without adding the destructive elements of comparison through character names and extensive physical descriptions, providing a deeply erotic tool to help couples connect and explore their fantasies...together.

Discover why readers are raving about Red Room Diaries Volumes 1-3  here, and pick up your copy in eBook or print today to experience this orgasmic content for yourself!

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Dominant Coaching

Receive customized guidance for your unique situation or dynamic as a new or aspiring Dominant / FemDom, in a personal or professional role, such as...

  • How to overcome insecurity and imposter syndrome as a Dominant.

  • How to effectively  incentivize and train a sub.

  • How to foster an environment of safety and devotion for a sub.

  • How to build the confidence to initiate and lead a scene.

  • How to handle miscommunications and unforeseen events in a scene or dynamic.

  • And more! This session is customized for you, so bring your questions for an organic coaching experience!

Due to unprecedented demand, I am no longer accepting
students outside of Patreon.

Join the Kinky Passion ($30/mo.) tier  for monthly group sessions, exclusive events, and a fast-pass to the top of My coaching list anytime a spot becomes available!

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"I am a sub male who has been on the fringes of this Lifestyle for decades, and Ms. Elle's insights and explanations are fantastic.

Ms. Elle's content is amongst the wisest and most helpful I have seen in any media. She is a force for good in the world."

YouTube Subscriber

Man in Suit

"After our first session, I was blown away at how fast Ms. Elle was able to key in on the issues and then give very strategic and practical advice. I was able to put it to use that very night which ended up being super amazing for me and my partner in crime. For those on the fence, you will not regret signing up!"

Dominant Trainee

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"I just found Ms. Elle's YouTube channel and OMG! Everything that is ever needed by me or my partner or anyone else, Ms. Elle has it and explains it so perfectly!

I can't believe that She exists! She is the greatest gift to humanity I've ever been educated by!

Thank you from the bottom of my heart!"

YouTube Subscriber

Man with Checkered Shirt

“Working with Ms. Elle has been the best thing for me. After my first session, I was inspired to go to my Dominant and request a different dynamic, and has honestly been the best thing for us. I feel so much more cared for and respected. But needed at the same time. And my partner feels more fulfilled and respected as well! Thank you Ms. Elle!”

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Suited businessman

"Ms. Elle is very beautiful but I'm excited by Her intellect. She speaks so clearly and precisely with great mastery of the English language and the subjects She covers. I have been to many conferences and been on panels with many Fortune 500 top executives and many do not measure up to Ms. Elle's skill for public speaking."

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