Red Flags of Fake Dominants Not every self-proclaimed Dominant in a tailored suit or leather boots is authentic. In fact, there are some big red flags of toxic traits sneakily disguised as Dominance, so watch today's video as I break down My top ten "tells" of pseudo-Doms, and how you can keep yourself safe! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - RELATIONSHIP HEALTH SELF-TEST FOR SUB-TYPES: https://www.patreon.com/posts/50456639 - SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica​​ - LISTEN TO MY PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rmiFsa...​ - READ MY BOOKS: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08GM25GK4?ref_=dbs_dp_rwt_sb_tkin&binding=kindle_edition - JOIN MY COACHING WAITLIST: https://www.msellex.com/contact-form​​ - FREE EROTICA: https://www.msellex.com/erotica​​ - FREE BDSM RESOURCES: https://www.msellex.com/bdsm101​​ --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - Website: https://www.msellex.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellexerotica/​​ - Twitter: https://twitter.com/ellexerotica​​ - Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Ms.-Elle-X/e/B083WH2H4N?ref=dbs_m_mng_rwt_byln - Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rmiFsaSsnOpzhVhboNwhP?si=zRUfxgcSTi-kV8UUhjh9bw - iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-d-s-effect/id1557563133 - SounderFM: https://thedseffect.sounder.fm - SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/user-277767407 - Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ellexerotica/​​ - Contact: https://www.msellex.com/contact-form​​ --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #warning #redflags #narcissist

Hand Signals for Submissive Training | Ms. Elle X Teaching your submissive hand signals is not only a great way to communicate clearly at public events, play parties, and more, but these gestures can foster very clear communication between you and your submissive, especially as a code-language in vanilla situations! Want to learn My top twelve hand signals? Watch today's video! XOXO, Ms. Elle -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica - LISTEN TO MY PODCAST: https://spoti.fi/3wEw696 - READ MY BOOKS: https://amzn.to/3dPqUXp - JOIN MY COACHING WAITLIST: https://www.msellex.com/contact --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - Website: https://www.msellex.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellexerotica/ - Twitter: https://twitter.com/ellexerotica - Amazon: https://amzn.to/3dPqUXp - Podcast (Spotify): https://spoti.fi/3wEw696 - Podcast (iTunes): https://apple.co/3e6RaNR - Podcast (SounderFM): https://thedseffect.sounder.fm - Podcast (SoundCloud): https://bit.ly/3k4K6Fl - Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ellexerotica/​​ - Contact: https://www.msellex.com/contact --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #handsignals #bodylanguage #submissivetraining

The *Ultimate* Guide to Non-Physical BDSM Punishments | Ms. Elle X As a soft-Domme with a penchant for psychological sadism, the concept of non-physical, that is, non-impact or overtly physically painful, punishments, is highly intriguing to Me, because this facet of punishment opens up an immense amount of creativity and effectiveness for all sub-types, even the brattiest masochist. So if you want over THIRTY punishment ideas that don’t involve a paddle or whip, tune in today as I give you the ultimate guide to non-physical punishments in BDSM! XOXO, Ms. Elle -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica - LISTEN TO MY PODCAST: https://spoti.fi/3wEw696 - READ MY BOOKS: https://amzn.to/3dPqUXp - JOIN MY COACHING WAITLIST: https://www.msellex.com/contact --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - Website: https://www.msellex.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellexerotica/ - Twitter: https://twitter.com/ellexerotica - Amazon: https://amzn.to/3dPqUXp - Podcast (Spotify): https://spoti.fi/3wEw696 - Podcast (iTunes): https://apple.co/3e6RaNR - Podcast (SounderFM): https://thedseffect.sounder.fm - Podcast (SoundCloud): https://bit.ly/3k4K6Fl - Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ellexerotica/​​ - Contact: https://www.msellex.com/contact --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #discipline #SAM #masochist

Red Flags of FAKE Submissives With the prevalence of eroticized abuse surrounding the label of “Dominant,” I spend a lot of time on this channel distinguishing the line between healthy leadership and abuse. But Dom-types aren’t the only ones who can be toxic time-wasters! I have personally encountered many self-proclaimed “submissives” who were actually just scared, codependent, and desperate. So if you want to know how to spot a fake submissive GUARANTEED, stay tuned as I share the THIRTEEN biggest signs of a wannabe sub! XOXO, Ms. Elle -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica - LISTEN TO MY PODCAST: https://spoti.fi/3wEw696 - READ MY BOOKS: https://amzn.to/3dPqUXp - JOIN MY COACHING WAITLIST: https://www.msellex.com/contact --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - Website: https://www.msellex.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellexerotica/ - Twitter: https://twitter.com/ellexerotica - Amazon: https://amzn.to/3dPqUXp - Podcast (Spotify): https://spoti.fi/3wEw696 - Podcast (iTunes): https://apple.co/3e6RaNR - Podcast (SounderFM): https://thedseffect.sounder.fm - Podcast (SoundCloud): https://bit.ly/3k4K6Fl - Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ellexerotica/​​ - Contact: https://www.msellex.com/contact --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #submissive #codependency #mentalhealth

How to Inspire a Newbie Dominant | Ms. Elle X In D/s dynamics where the submissive partner has more BDSM knowledge or experience than their Dominant partner, what do you do? Is there a way to engage without topping from the bottom? And more importantly, how can you as the submissive encourage more Dominant expression from your new or shy partner? Watch today's video for those answers and more! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica​​ - LISTEN TO MY PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rmiFsa...​ - READ MY BOOKS: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08GM25GK4?ref_=dbs_dp_rwt_sb_tkin&binding=kindle_edition - JOIN MY COACHING WAITLIST: https://www.msellex.com/contact-form​​ - FREE EROTICA: https://www.msellex.com/erotica​​ - FREE BDSM RESOURCES: https://www.msellex.com/bdsm101​​ --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - Website: https://www.msellex.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellexerotica/​​ - Twitter: https://twitter.com/ellexerotica​​ - Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Ms.-Elle-X/e/B083WH2H4N?ref=dbs_m_mng_rwt_byln - Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rmiFsaSsnOpzhVhboNwhP?si=zRUfxgcSTi-kV8UUhjh9bw - iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-d-s-effect/id1557563133 - SounderFM: https://thedseffect.sounder.fm - SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/user-277767407 - Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ellexerotica/​​ - Contact: https://www.msellex.com/contact-form​​ --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #bdsm #dominance #newbie

The Top 10 Best Types of BDSM Play for Newbies So, you want a taste of something a little less vanilla in your romantic life, but with so many options for BDSM play, it can be confusing to know where to start! That's why today, I have compiled a list of My TOP TEN play ideas for BDSM newbies! -------------------------------------------------- SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL - Join my Patron: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica - Read my Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B083W7XLPL SOCIAL LINKS - Instagram (8.7K): https://www.instagram.com/ellexerotica/ - Pinterest (2.6K): https://www.pinterest.com/ellexerotica/ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES - BDSM Basics Blog: https://www.msellex.com/bdsm101 - Free Erotica: https://www.msellex.com/erotica

How to Build an Amazing BDSM Scene One of the most frequent questions that arise in my Dominant training sessions is the composition and flow of a BDSM scene. A conceptual understanding of kinky play is one thing; having the tools and confidence to effectively execute a blissful scene is another thing entirely. Tune in to today's video for my six steps that will help you create an amazing BDSM scene! -------------------------------------------------- *BDSM SCENE PLANNER: https://www.patreon.com/posts/scene-building-48417754 SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL - Join my Patron: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica - Read my Books: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B083W7XLPL SOCIAL LINKS - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellexerotica/ - Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ellexerotica/ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES - BDSM Basics Blog: https://www.msellex.com/bdsm101 - Free Erotica: https://www.msellex.com/erotica

How to Empower a Newbie FemDom It is very common for submissive males to contact me in hopes of working with their shy FemDom wives and girlfriends who are nervous about claiming their Dominant power in the desired female-led dynamic. If you find yourself in that situation, watch today's video for seven simple steps you can take as the submissive partner to inspire your newbie FemDom, Goddess, or Queen! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL: https://www.patreon.com/ellexerotica​​ - LISTEN TO MY PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rmiFsa...​ - READ MY BOOKS: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08GM25GK4?ref_=dbs_dp_rwt_sb_tkin&binding=kindle_edition - JOIN MY COACHING WAITLIST: https://www.msellex.com/contact-form​​ - FREE EROTICA: https://www.msellex.com/erotica​​ - FREE BDSM RESOURCES: https://www.msellex.com/bdsm101​​ --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - Website: https://www.msellex.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellexerotica/​​ - Twitter: https://twitter.com/ellexerotica​​ - Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Ms.-Elle-X/e/B083WH2H4N?ref=dbs_m_mng_rwt_byln - Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rmiFsaSsnOpzhVhboNwhP?si=zRUfxgcSTi-kV8UUhjh9bw - iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-d-s-effect/id1557563133 - SounderFM: https://thedseffect.sounder.fm - SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/user-277767407 - Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ellexerotica/​​ - Contact: https://www.msellex.com/contact-form​​ ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------